How to Get Laid with Craigslist

How to Get Laid with Craigslist

I’ve been thinking about Craigslist lately, and how oddly generous it is. Craigslist is a particularly magical resource in the SF Bay Area because it started here. It built its momentum here. For me, it’s been most useful when I’m moving (finding an apt, finding furniture, helping me give stuff away, …), and when I’m looking for sex.

Before dating Kyle, I went through a six-year period where I was mostly independent, but felt the … » more »

Relationship trends, all the senses, and why I want to tell you about them

A few weeks ago, Kyle and I flew (in his four-seater propeller airplane) to Southern California for a combination sex conference & Disneyland trip.  Because those two things totally go together.

The conference was Catalyst Con, and it was mainly for educators and activists who focus on sex and sexuality issues.  We spent Saturday at the conference, and hit Disneyland on Friday Night and Sunday morning. (Sidebar: The new Cars Land is … » more »

Colorado: Little Towns and Giant Mountains

Colorado: Little Towns and Giant Mountains

Lake City, Colorado is famous for Alferd Packer and his unfortunate incident of eating people (which I only know about from Cannibal! The Musical*). Aside from that, nobody’s heard of the place. Not even other people in Colorado. But Kyle’s grandmother grew up there, and he’s gone back to visit her childhood home (now a carefully preserved historical house) nearly every summer since he was born. This time, I got to come along.

A … » more »

So I wanna be a sex blogger.

So I wanna be a sex blogger.

I have this idea in my head that I can be a sex blogger. The kind who writes about glamorous adventures and awkward moments, who demystifies chemistry, and who makes fulfilling experiences more accessible. I have this belief that I can lay my own life out on the table, observe what’s happening in the world around me, offer a nice thoughtful layer of analysis and perspective, and make everything a bit hotter as we go.… » more »