Sex & Jets

I’ve been thinking about Craigslist lately, and how oddly generous it is. Craigslist is a particularly magical resource in the SF Bay Area because it started here. It built its momentum here. For me, it’s been most useful when I’m moving (finding an apt, finding furniture, helping me give stuff away, …), and when I’m looking for sex.

Before dating Kyle, I went through a six-year period where I was mostly independent, but felt the … » more »

Around the World in 80 Hours: Part 2 (A day in Singapore, then a lot of flying)

Prior to planning this trip, I knew virtually nothing about Singapore. It was pretty high on my list-that-doesn’t-really-exist of places that I wanted to visit, but I didn’t really know why or what I’d do when I got there. I suspect that the allure of the legendary Singapore Airlines First Class experience put it in my head that Singapore was a place that I wanted to visit, but I can’t think of anything more specific … » more »

A few weeks ago, Kyle and I flew (in his four-seater propeller airplane) to Southern California for a combination sex conference & Disneyland trip. Because those two things totally go together.

The conference was Catalyst Con, and it was mainly for educators and activists who focus on sex and sexuality issues. We spent Saturday at the conference, and hit Disneyland on Friday Night and Sunday morning. (Sidebar: The new Cars Land is … » more »

Around the World in 80 Hours: Part 1 (Itinerary and Singapore Flight 15)

I like to travel. A lot. More specifically, I like to fly. There isn’t much that makes me more happy than looking out the window and seeing the earth thousands of feet below and being high enough to see the curvature of the earth on the horizon. It’s why I became a pilot, and it’s part of why when a chance to fly SFO-LAX-IAD-MIA-IAD-LAX-SFO in a single day pops up, I go for it. (I … » more »

From time to time, I perform at events like Bawdy Storytelling — an SF Bay Area-based storytelling series about sexual adventures. It’s fun as hell, and it attracts some of the most interesting, supportive, and gorgeous audiences I’ve ever seen.

As luck would have it, the Bawdy team just posted my video from last December’s show (themed: “Winning!”) on YouTube for the world to see. It’s about a particularly special weekend booty call involving a … » more »